{"id":5889,"date":"2026-05-06T18:02:44","date_gmt":"2026-05-06T21:02:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/06-05-2026\/"},"modified":"2026-05-06T18:31:38","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T21:31:38","slug":"06-05-2026","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/en\/06-05-2026\/","title":{"rendered":"06\/05\/2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hello Son<\/p>\n\n<p>And happy monthiversary! 13 months \ud83d\ude09 <\/p>\n\n<p>Latest News:<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Weight and Food<\/h3>\n\n<p>I weigh you every Monday morning when you wake up.<br\/>You&#8217;re back up to 8.2 kilos. You were this weight a month and a half ago, then you lost a lot&#8230; <\/p>\n\n<p>So we can say that today you&#8217;ve been stable for 1 month. We now hope you&#8217;ll continue the growth trend of the last 2 weeks. <\/p>\n\n<p>It&#8217;s worth noting that we&#8217;ve managed to get back to 5 meals a day instead of 4, and that we&#8217;ve unfortunately had to go back to a good 90% milk (Neocate, Neoadvance, Neoforte, or specialized formula). But hey, if it works&#8230; <\/p>\n\n<p>What&#8217;s certain is that we&#8217;ve managed to regain some control of the situation, and you&#8217;re slowly starting to enjoy eating again.<br\/>So we think this is positive for the long term. Fingers crossed! <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Breathing<\/h3>\n\n<p>Stable situation.<\/p>\n\n<p>There are variable days, sometimes with evenings where you&#8217;re very breathless despite your saturation remaining consistently above 92%.<\/p>\n\n<p>By the way, it&#8217;s now been a month since you stopped using oxygen!<\/p>\n\n<p>We&#8217;re continuing the routine: motor physio, respiratory physio, NIV, aerosol, Powerbreathe, etc., etc&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Teeth<\/h3>\n\n<p>Your teeth are growing, and that can&#8217;t be helping with eating or breathing due to the pain. <br\/>But this is a classic baby problem, so no panic!<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pulmonologist<\/h3>\n\n<p>We had an online appointment with your pulmonologist.<\/p>\n\n<p>She saw your scan and noted overall improvement.<br\/>However, she detected a possible early stage of Bronchiectasis, which is not good news.<\/p>\n\n<p>To explain simply, bronchiectasis is an abnormal and permanent dilation of the bronchi that promotes mucus accumulation and repeated lung infections.<br\/>Your scars weren&#8217;t helping already&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p>So we must continue to protect you from the slightest respiratory virus for several more years.<\/p>\n\n<p>As a result, we don&#8217;t go out anymore and live a bit in antisocial pandemic mode.<br\/>Personally, that suits me.<br\/>Your parents are already a bit autistic on the edges anyway \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n<p>She&#8217;s considering a new pulse therapy: a high dose of corticosteroids for 3 days.<br\/>This would be the fourth, after the 3 you already had in the hospital.<br\/>The idea would be to reduce inflammation and perhaps achieve a beneficial effect on your lungs? <br\/>We&#8217;re trying to see if this could be done at home rather than in the hospital.<br\/>It&#8217;s still under consideration.<\/p>\n\n<p>We had more or less considered dupilumab too, but it&#8217;s currently on hold pending further tests.<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Autistic?<\/h3>\n\n<p>Speaking of autism, you now have an occupational therapist again to manage your various developmental delays.<\/p>\n\n<p>According to her, you have certain behaviors that could be associated with autism, but that doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean you are autistic, especially with your 6-month developmental delay.<br\/>So it&#8217;s something to monitor. <br\/>To be honest, we&#8217;d been told this before. So nothing new there either. <\/p>\n\n<p>At the same time, your parents are a bit weird too&#8230; and the thing is hereditary, so&#8230;<br\/>As they say in France, the apple doesn&#8217;t fall far from the tree.<\/p>\n\n<p>And honestly, I think I prefer that to bronchiolitis obliterans&#8230; <br\/>But we&#8217;ll get 2 for the price of 1? <br\/>Special offer? <\/p>\n\n<p>I&#8217;m kidding, I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s the case. But I&#8217;m ready for anything. <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nanny<\/h3>\n\n<p>Your nanny, who had been with us since Fortaleza, officially returned home 15 days ago, and I&#8217;m happy!<br\/>Not that I didn\u2019t like it, but it\u2019s so nice to be just the three of us at home!<\/p>\n\n<p>And we found a very nice lady from Barrinha who comes to help us for 4 hours a day in the afternoon. This time allows us to refocus on our work and live a normal family life. Perfect! Thanks to your mom for taking care of all the organizing.   <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Anecdotes for the future<\/h3>\n\n<p>I think it&#8217;s important to note a few anecdotes about you so we can remember them later.<\/p>\n\n<p>You love calling your grandpas, grandma, and great-grandma in France.<br\/>And you wave goodbye and hello to them. <br\/>You like to shake your head no, and you love it when grandma sings &#8220;Ainsi font font les petites marionettes&#8221; or &#8220;Petit papa noel&#8221; to you.<\/p>\n\n<p>Your great-grandmother Jeannine loves seeing the videos I send you and talks to me about you every day, telling me you&#8217;re really handsome and seem perfectly healthy!<\/p>\n\n<p>You also continue to try to talk, with &#8220;mamamamamaaa.&#8221;<br\/>I&#8217;m waiting for &#8220;papapaaaa&#8221; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n<p>And this morning, you called your ball &#8220;banana.&#8221;<br\/>Do you have Minion blood?<br\/>It&#8217;s possible, hahaha.<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Insurance<\/h3>\n\n<p>Things are moving!<\/p>\n\n<p>In recent weeks, things have progressed.<\/p>\n\n<p>The first Brazilian insurance company you were hospitalized with isn&#8217;t covering us because where we live isn&#8217;t in their coverage area. I love them.<br\/>We&#8217;ll wait a little longer with them, then we&#8217;ll move on to the next step with all our strength and love. <\/p>\n\n<p>The second Brazilian insurance company approved a one-month authorization for reimbursements.<br\/>We took it out when we saw that the first one wasn&#8217;t up to par.<br\/>We just tested the first claims today; we&#8217;ll see how that goes.<br\/>In any case, we&#8217;ve taken them to court because they refuse to handle your case for an invalid reason, according to the lawyer&#8230;<br\/>But administration and justice are slow, even if the second judge (the first one had surgery) seems to validate the cause.<\/p>\n\n<p>The third insurance, a French one this time, taken out at the end of 2025, started reimbursing certain things in recent weeks.<br\/>We&#8217;re getting about 40% coverage for some treatments.<br\/>It&#8217;s not perfect, but it&#8217;s better than nothing.<\/p>\n\n<p>As your mom says, &#8220;Plan A, Plan B, Plan C&#8221;, I even have a Plan D.<\/p>\n\n<p>And then we also have Brazil&#8217;s free health service that has been helping us a lot since we came home. It&#8217;s actually excellent!  Oxygen at home, some medications, monthly blood tests at home\u2014great!<\/p>\n\n<p>For now, let&#8217;s say it covers part of the insurance costs&#8230; which is a big monthly budget for not much return at the moment&#8230; But in the future, it will allow us to breathe financially. <\/p>\n\n<p>However, all of this is a huge time sink.<br\/>Your mother and I have spent hours&#8230; and a lot of nerves on it since the beginning.<\/p>\n\n<p>They do everything not to pay anything.<br\/>Except perhaps the French insurance, which seems honest.<br\/>But asking for a reimbursement is worse than the house that drives you crazy in Asterix and Obelix.<\/p>\n\n<p>And precisely, for all this time-consuming part, I decided to put my expertise into practice.<br\/>I set up an AI that manages all your administrative health: results, appointments, accounts, reimbursements, documents, follow-up, etc.<br\/>It has become almost a pleasure to do in thirty minutes something that previously took me a whole day. The WhatsApp conversations with their agent that last for hours&#8230; there&#8230; there&#8217;s nothing to do, but your mom excels! <\/p>\n\n<p>Generally, I use our needs for your illness to catch up and massively train myself in using AI. And maybe in a few years, you&#8217;ll even have your own AI clone of Dad! <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The projects of the Hope For Gabriel association<\/h3>\n\n<p>Your grandpa Robert is actively working on his August sports challenge and has found big sponsors like <strong>Plattard<\/strong> or the <strong>Auvergne Rh\u00f4ne Alpes<\/strong> region, for example!<\/p>\n\n<p>We also have several influencers who will share the challenge, including former finalists of <strong>Pekin Express<\/strong> and maybe others soon \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n<p>The main goal is to communicate about your very rare illness.<\/p>\n\n<p>If people reading this want to help, it&#8217;s here: <a href=\"https:\/\/lescolsdusouffle.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/lescolsdusouffle.com<\/a><br\/>You can share the link, and there are many ways to help. The easiest: share! <\/p>\n\n<p>Your grandma Michelle is also talking about the project, and there should be events organized in a well-known gym franchise in the Beaujolais region.<\/p>\n\n<p>All of this will be relayed in the media!<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">News from the friends in the ICU<\/h3>\n\n<p>Since we spent several months in that cursed hospital, we made some acquaintances.<\/p>\n\n<p>Some babies got infections or viruses again and had to return there&#8230; <br\/>The city of Fortaleza is really to be avoided during periods of virus circulation for babies!<\/p>\n\n<p>Also, I had shared a fundraiser for a family trying to take their little girl to S\u00e3o Paulo because the hospital refused to operate on her. <\/p>\n\n<p>Well, they&#8217;ve had an extremely difficult year, but we learned today that they will finally all be able to be together very soon.<\/p>\n\n<p>I&#8217;m so happy for them. I hope we can all get together in a few months\/years and celebrate life around a good old barbecue! We talked about it with her dad when we were counting pigeons in the hospital courtyard&#8230;  <\/p>\n\n<p>I can&#8217;t even imagine the year they must have gone through.<br\/>I went crazy in 6 months&#8230; so a year is inhumane. <br\/>All this for a health insurance\/hospital that doesn&#8217;t take its responsibilities&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">And your parents, son?<\/h3>\n\n<p>It&#8217;s still not easy every day&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p>But today, we mainly face &#8220;normal&#8221; parental problems, with the logistics of a sick child and a complicated history.<\/p>\n\n<p>I think your mom has planned a little message that she\u2019ll post on Sunday for Mother\u2019s Day.<\/p>\n\n<p>Personally, I can now live happier* and no longer think about the future or the past.<br\/><em>(* provided that you are doing well and breathing well)<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p>I often ask your mom how she&#8217;s feeling on a scale of 0 to 10, with 0 being sad and 10 being &#8220;super happy.&#8221; Her answer varies but tends towards improvement, and as for me, I&#8217;m regularly hitting 8s!  <\/p>\n\n<p>I wake up in the morning when you do, telling myself that I&#8217;m living a new life.<br\/>And I&#8217;m going to enjoy every minute of the day with you.<br\/>And tomorrow will be another new life.<\/p>\n\n<p>And what I often tell myself:<\/p>\n\n<p>A year ago, you were in the hospital.<\/p>\n\n<p>On <a href=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/en\/09-05\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/09-05\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">05\/09<\/a>, it will be the &#8220;anniversary&#8221; of the blog&#8217;s launch. <br\/>On 05\/11, it will be the day I was told there was nothing more to be done for you&#8230; while your neighbor, in the same condition, passed away&#8230; I can still see those damn oxynitro bottles, those unbearable beeps, and the staff panicking&#8230; <\/p>\n\n<p>So let me tell you, today, I&#8217;m simply grateful that you&#8217;re here, at home with us.<\/p>\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t know what the future holds.<br\/>But I know that in the present, in this very moment, I&#8217;m living my best life with you.<\/p>\n\n<p>And that I owe it to myself to enjoy these unique moments 1000% that I can never relive, especially since several months have already been stolen from us.<\/p>\n\n<p>And if we have to live for years without a completely normal life so that you can live without tubes, then I&#8217;m ready!<\/p>\n\n<p>And we&#8217;ll do everything to live well!<\/p>\n\n<p>I love you, my little potato.<\/p>\n\n<p>Dad<\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello Son And happy monthiversary! 13 months \ud83d\ude09 Latest News: Weight and Food I weigh you every Monday morning when you wake up.You&#8217;re back up to 8.2 kilos. 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