{"id":3699,"date":"2025-11-15T11:16:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-15T14:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/15-11-2025\/"},"modified":"2025-12-20T09:27:44","modified_gmt":"2025-12-20T12:27:44","slug":"15-11-2025","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/en\/15-11-2025\/","title":{"rendered":"15\/11\/2025"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hey Son,<\/p>\n\n<p>Two days ago, I told you I was focused on work, especially on a website I had to deliver today. Well, it&#8217;s done; it&#8217;s been online since 4 AM this morning, and the client is receiving orders one after another.  <\/p>\n\n<p>You&#8217;ll see, in life, it&#8217;s always satisfying to build something and see it work. It&#8217;s even better when it brings value to people. <\/p>\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sure that with everything you&#8217;ve been through, you&#8217;ll positively impact the world.<\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <strong>Yesterday was quite stable.<\/strong>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>What I mainly remember is the visit from the NIV specialist last night.<\/p>\n\n<p>For your guardian angels who are reading this (and those who will find us via search), I&#8217;m going to explain what it is and what it&#8217;s for.<\/p>\n\n<p>NIV stands for Non-Invasive Ventilation. <\/p>\n\n<p>When you were in the hospital, you were intubated. The machine sent air into your lungs to keep them working.  <\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <em>(Until they stopped working altogether, and you had to be connected to an ECMO, a kind of artificial lung.)<\/em>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>Fortunately, today you are much better and no longer need these machines.<\/p>\n\n<p>However, you have small tubes in your lungs that are damaged and will never work again. <\/p>\n\n<p>These tubes bear a scar from what you&#8217;ve been through, and this scar blocks the passage of air.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"278\" src=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/32ab1680-bronquiolite-1.jpg\" alt=\"32ab1680 bronchiolitis 1\" class=\"wp-image-3701\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/32ab1680-bronquiolite-1.jpg 700w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/32ab1680-bronquiolite-1-300x119.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p>The good thing is that you are still a baby, and your lungs are not fully developed. <\/p>\n\n<p>Specialists say that until the age of two, your lungs will develop further, then more slowly until eight years old.<\/p>\n\n<p>Since part of your lungs doesn&#8217;t work, you have to compensate by breathing faster. We help you by giving you oxygen. That&#8217;s the baseline. But there&#8217;s also NIV.   <\/p>\n\n<p>We discovered NIV thanks to a respiratory physiotherapist recommended by a pulmonologist we had contacted outside the hospital.<\/p>\n\n<p>Then we spoke about this with one of the hospital&#8217;s respiratory physiotherapists, who told us it was a VIP treatment and that, for insurance, it wasn&#8217;t good value for money, and that we absolutely shouldn&#8217;t mention she had told us.<\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <em>(It reminds me of the atmosphere of terror we lived every day in that hell.)<\/em>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>So, with your mom, we fought again and again (complaints, contacts, medical reports&#8230;), and we finally got the right NIV machine: Philips Trilogy Evo.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"892\" src=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/philips-trilogy-evo-scaled-e1763214955694-1024x892.avif\" alt=\"philips trilogy evo\" class=\"wp-image-3689\" style=\"width:281px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/philips-trilogy-evo-scaled-e1763214955694-1024x892.avif 1024w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/philips-trilogy-evo-scaled-e1763214955694-300x261.avif 300w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/philips-trilogy-evo-scaled-e1763214955694-768x669.avif 768w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/philips-trilogy-evo-scaled-e1763214955694-1536x1339.avif 1536w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/philips-trilogy-evo-scaled-e1763214955694-2048x1785.avif 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p>\n          <strong>The goal of this machine, and I&#8217;m simplifying, is to send a certain pressure into the lungs to keep the small tubes open (bronchi, bronchioles, etc.). <\/strong>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>Those that are completely fibrotic will never open again, but the new ones that are forming feel this pressure. <\/p>\n\n<p>And that&#8217;s where the magic of nature comes in. The more you use NIV, the more your body understands that it needs to keep these new tubes open and develop your lung.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Your rib cage will grow, and you will gain respiratory capacity.<\/p>\n\n<p>In comparison, yesterday she explained to us that some parents are not informed about this type of care, and their children end up with atrophied lungs in underdeveloped rib cages.<\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <em>\n            <strong>(Son: knowledge is life)<\/strong>\n          <\/em>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>Our goal is therefore for you to do as much NIV as possible in parallel with respiratory physiotherapy.<\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <strong>Problem:<\/strong>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>Like most babies, you don&#8217;t tolerate it and you cry. <\/p>\n\n<p>We have to wait until you&#8217;re asleep to put it on you.<\/p>\n\n<p>There is a softer mask: the Respireo Soft Baby.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"520\" height=\"520\" src=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mascara-nasal-respireo-soft-baby-01_2.avif\" alt=\"Respireo Soft Baby nasal mask 01 2\" class=\"wp-image-3690\" style=\"width:187px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mascara-nasal-respireo-soft-baby-01_2.avif 520w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mascara-nasal-respireo-soft-baby-01_2-300x300.avif 300w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mascara-nasal-respireo-soft-baby-01_2-150x150.avif 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 520px) 100vw, 520px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p>It makes things easier because it&#8217;s softer. <\/p>\n\n<p>It adapts better to the fact that you have a lot of tubes in your nose. This reduces air leaks that disturb the machine. <\/p>\n\n<p>Before, you had another one that looks like a giraffe; it&#8217;s not bad, but less suitable for babies your age.<\/p>\n\n<p>For now, we place the mask on your nose while you sleep because you don&#8217;t yet tolerate the gray fasteners. But with time, you&#8217;ll be able to wear it on your own, and you&#8217;ll have it every time you sleep. <\/p>\n\n<p>Some people are on NIV twenty-four hours a day. <\/p>\n\n<p>In theory, you won&#8217;t need it. The goal is really to give you this positive pressure in your lungs when you sleep. <\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <strong>Then there&#8217;s the question of settings. <\/strong>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>At the hospital, they didn&#8217;t know how to use this machine. <\/p>\n\n<p>Which is partly logical because you have to fight to get it. So they&#8217;re not really used to using it (except maybe in the ICU). <\/p>\n\n<p>By the way, they were also using adult tubes&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p>So we called upon an external respiratory physiotherapist to configure it correctly. <\/p>\n\n<p>And last night, this person came and spent two hours with us to explain everything.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"941\" src=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/bebe-bronchiolite-obliterante-vni-1024x941.jpg\" alt=\"baby bronchiolitis obliterans niv\" class=\"wp-image-3692\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/bebe-bronchiolite-obliterante-vni-1024x941.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/bebe-bronchiolite-obliterante-vni-300x276.jpg 300w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/bebe-bronchiolite-obliterante-vni-768x705.jpg 768w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/bebe-bronchiolite-obliterante-vni.jpg 1400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p>It&#8217;s actually very interesting.<\/p>\n\n<p>It&#8217;s a mix of biomechanics, calculations, and observations. <\/p>\n\n<p>For example, with your mom, we had noticed that your breathing rhythm didn&#8217;t always match the one the machine imposed. <\/p>\n\n<p>It turned out that the machine was too fast for you. <\/p>\n\n<p>This might explain why you had trouble sleeping and why you had so much gas. More to follow! <\/p>\n\n<p>The lady adjusted everything, and we&#8217;ll see how you progress.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"693\" src=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/reglage-philips-trilogy-evo-bronchiolite-obliterante-1024x693.jpg\" alt=\"philips trilogy evo bronchiolitis obliterans settings\" class=\"wp-image-3693\" style=\"width:400px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/reglage-philips-trilogy-evo-bronchiolite-obliterante-1024x693.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/reglage-philips-trilogy-evo-bronchiolite-obliterante-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/reglage-philips-trilogy-evo-bronchiolite-obliterante-768x520.jpg 768w, https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/reglage-philips-trilogy-evo-bronchiolite-obliterante.jpg 1400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p>You know, son, every day we learn. And I&#8217;m very happy to be able to share it, because I hope it can help other little warriors like you. <\/p>\n\n<p>On this note, I am continuing to think about creating <a href=\"https:\/\/bocommunity.org\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/bocommunity.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">a site dedicated to bronchiolitis obliterans<\/a>. I joined a community of parents in Madrid, which led me to an<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/558805340905230\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/558805340905230\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\"> international Facebook group<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n<p>I&#8217;m doing my research and still thinking about how I&#8217;m going to build this site. I want it to be useful to everyone. <\/p>\n\n<p>That&#8217;s all for the NIV. <\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <strong>For those using this article, remember that I am not a healthcare professional; please always check with your doctor to see if it&#8217;s suitable for your case.<\/strong>\n        <\/p>\n\n<p>Tonight you were supposed to go for an X-ray at the hospital to check your probe, but it&#8217;s been postponed.<\/p>\n\n<p>I love you, my little potato.<\/p>\n\n<p>Dad<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey Son, Two days ago, I told you I was focused on work, especially on a website I had to deliver today. Well, it&#8217;s done; it&#8217;s been online since 4 AM this morning, and the client is receiving orders one after another. 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