{"id":1341,"date":"2025-06-16T09:47:50","date_gmt":"2025-06-16T12:47:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/16-06\/"},"modified":"2025-06-17T08:40:22","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T11:40:22","slug":"16-06","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hopeforgabriel.com\/en\/16-06\/","title":{"rendered":"16\/06"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8:45 AM<\/h3>\n\n<p>A new week begins here, one more where Gabriel says a big <strong>YES<\/strong> to life!<\/p>\n\n<p>The night passed smoothly by his mother&#8217;s side, with oxygen saturation always above 98%. <\/p>\n\n<p>This morning, at 6 AM, it even peaked at 100% for long periods.<\/p>\n\n<p>It&#8217;s MAGNIFICENT, as the very expressive Brazilian Cristina Cordula would say!<\/p>\n\n<p>The respiratory machine is currently set at 40%, with a frequency of 28 breaths per minute. <\/p>\n\n<p>We don&#8217;t know yet when Gabriel will be able to do without it&#8230; but believe me, when that day comes, it will be a fiesta!<\/p>\n\n<p>Thank you to all the French speakers who wished me a happy Father&#8217;s Day yesterday. We didn&#8217;t celebrate anything here because in Brazil, we celebrate it on August 10th. Which suits me well and I hope, will give Gabriel time to leave the ICU so we can finally have a big hug together, the three of us!  <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Daily Life in Bacterialand<\/h3>\n\n<p>Apart from that, in our daily life in \u201cBacterialand\u201d, I feel that the ICU staff is finally taking more precautions.<\/p>\n\n<p>This morning, I \u201cexterminated a fly in the ICU corridor with my Havaianas flip-flop (effective, clean, neat, I&#8217;m going to offer my influencer talents to the brand). Two ants also ended their journey on the wall, right next to Gabriel&#8217;s bed.  <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Some more Personal News<\/h3>\n\n<p>Our two cats, Pompom and Manuelita, have found temporary foster families. It&#8217;s a huge relief for us.  <\/p>\n\n<p>As for our house in Barrinha, it&#8217;s for rent! Notice to beach vacation lovers! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n<p>And many ask me if we continue to work during this period. The answer is yes&#8230; but differently with less time and depending on the emotional vibes as you can imagine. <\/p>\n\n<p>Manuela continues to manage her rentals remotely, and on my side, I continue creating websites and supporting my students in training. The advantage of being able to work online, even from the ICU corridor. <\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I&#8217;m Sharing below a Message Written by Manuela on Facebook:<\/h3>\n\n<p>A Mother&#8217;s Reveries<\/p>\n\n<p>There is no room for pity&#8230; nor for looking at pain&#8230; nor for blaming the Universe.<br\/>When I feel these sentiments trying to approach, I close the door myself before they enter.<\/p>\n\n<p>He was in my belly for nine months. I felt him in me for 24 consecutive hours before his coming into the world. <br\/>I have every legitimacy to speak.<br\/>My husband has already found his way to cope with all this, he frees himself by writing. I, on the contrary, don&#8217;t \u201cwrite as much as before. I don&#8217;t look at photos or videos of Gabriel. I\u201d also avoid talking about it for too long&#8230; because I know that if I open that door, I risk entering a dark tunnel from which I might not be able to get out.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Gabriel doesn&#8217;t need that.<br\/>He needs support. Prayers. He is the life he has chosen to live.<br\/>And every day, he faces a challenge&#8230; and he overcomes it with a dignity that only he possesses.  <\/p>\n\n<p>I feel small beside him&#8230;<br\/>Small for having complained so many times about life&#8230; because of legal problems, a bill to pay&#8230;<br\/>Small for not having fully lived my life, very often.<\/p>\n\n<p>Meanwhile, Gabriel, with inexplicable mastery, dodges bacteria&#8230;<br\/>While another child passes away, he remains&#8230;<\/p>\n\n<p>And I&#8217;m certain: your prayers and all this chain of positive energy give him strength.<br\/>No mother&#8230; no father&#8230; imagines that the first months of their child&#8217;s life will be spent in a hospital bed.<br\/>If we only saw this aspect, we would remain prisoners of the pain of what we didn&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n\n<p>I choose to look towards the future.<br\/>Towards the many wonderful years we are still going to live together.<br\/>And towards a quality life, full of meaning, full of love.<\/p>\n\n<p>If you wish to send your prayer, your strength and all your love for Gabriel&#8217;s 100% healing, we gather every day at 9 AM (Brazil time) \u2014 2 PM (France time) \u2014 in a prayer chain.<br\/>Those who wish can even set an alarm&#8230; and so it will be&#8230; until the day he leaves the hospital.<\/p>\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5:54 PM<\/h3>\n\n<p>Gabriel continues to do well. <\/p>\n\n<p>It was a stable day for him: blood results are improving and his lungs remain stable.<\/p>\n\n<p>The pulse therapy is scheduled for this Friday, if all goes well.<\/p>\n\n<p>This treatment will temporarily deactivate his immune system, making him vulnerable. We have therefore requested that he be placed in isolation if possible (because bacterialand&#8230;) <\/p>\n\n<p>Today again, we had to report the presence of ants on the wall, right next to him.<\/p>\n\n<p>Other parents express their frustration. We now hear \u201cFLY ALERT!\u201d resounding in t \u201che ICU. It&#8217;s sad, but it&#8217;s so absurd that it becomes almost funny!\u201d  <\/p>\n\n<p>Furthermore, I was called by the management regarding my two complaints from last week, as well as the open letter distributed to the staff.<\/p>\n\n<p>The exchange was constructive. They are looking to improve things. I reminded them that we had already reported these issues in the past, and despite that, we had to report them again.  <\/p>\n\n<p>They proposed a more radical solution, which I won&#8217;t detail here for now. We&#8217;ll see if it bears fruit&#8230; <\/p>\n\n<p>See you tomorrow for new adventures!<\/p>\n\n<p>And don&#8217;t forget to send love to our son!<\/p>\n\n<p>\n          <br\/>\n        <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>8:45 AM A new week begins here, one more where Gabriel says a big YES to life! The night passed smoothly by his mother&#8217;s side, with oxygen saturation always above 98%. This morning, at 6 AM, it even peaked at 100% for long periods. It&#8217;s MAGNIFICENT, as the very expressive Brazilian Cristina Cordula would say! 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